There are a ton of single, lonely women out there that constantly ask themselves if there is a man out there just for them. But the problem is that the majority of these same women spend their days thinking instead of doing, wondering instead of taking action. If being old fashioned hasn’t gotten you a date with that special guy you’ve been eying then maybe it’s time to switch things up for a change.
Aggressive women often get the brunt of abuse by other women. “Easy” is one of the most G-rated terms that such women are usually called by but there is a huge difference between being “easy” and being “aggressive”. These days women are stepping out of traditional roles in all aspects: family, career, sex, etc. When done right, a woman can have anything she wants the way she wants it, not how society tells her it should be done. When it comes to getting a date, being too old fashioned can easily lead to becoming an old maid.
So how does one go about being aggressive without being easy? The first step is to retrain your thinking. Sure, it’s great if the guy makes all the moves, asks you out on a date and so on. But if you happen to be the type of woman that hasn’t had many offers or if there is a special guy you’d love to get to know better but he’s keeping his distance, it may be time for you to reevaluate what you’re doing. Aggressiveness in a woman doesn’t have to mean “Hey, let’s jump in bed!” In fact, sex doesn’t even have anything to do with a woman’s initial aggressiveness when pursuing a man. Your aggression level could be as mellow as making the moves men traditionally assume. For example, say there’s a cute (and available) co-worker that you’ve been sweating over for months but your conversations don’t move past more than nervous “hellos” and “how are you doing?” You sense that he’s into you but he hasn’t made any moves. Instead of spending your time being frustrated, try to put yourself into his shoes: men worry about rejection just as much - if not more - than women. He could be shy. He may not think you like him enough to ask you for a date. There is nothing wrong with breaking the ice first. The next time the two of you are in conversation, ask him if he’d like to go to lunch or get together after work for a movie. Once the offer is on the table, there’s no way he’ll be able to say “no”, especially if the vibes between you two have been strong the entire time.
Women are much too afraid of becoming stereotyped as being “easy” but once you get over that initial fear and play to your strengths in the aggression department, you’ll quickly see how simple it is to attract the guy you want. Believe it or not ladies, it’s okay to want a man and take the steps to show him that you are available. Sleeping around and being “easy” is one thing but with the right approach and being true to yourself while letting your dream guy know you’re open for his attention, can open up the doors to a relationship that you may never have thought was possible. So step up your game, use a bit of aggression and a go-getter attitude to put your foot in the door - if done right, chances are Mr. Right will be there to hold the door open for you.
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