Mother’s Day is right around the corner and most of us are already feeling the pressure to produce a gift worthy of our mother’s love and devotion. To find the perfect gift that truly says, “You’re the best!” let mom tell you herself what she’d really like in a way that speaks louder than any words. You don’t spoil the surprise by letting Mom pick out her own gift. She tells you by her love languages, and you’ll hear her just by watching or remembering the way she treats you. These tips are also great if you’re shopping for grandmothers, mothers-in-law or the special lady who has been an important part of your life.

For the mom who is always busy (happily so) doing something above and beyond for the ones she loves, give back by doing the same. Simple acts of service, like making a date to help her plant spring flowers or a surprise cleaning of the attic, will tell her that you care. If she’s always doing a particular thing, like taking lunch to her neighbors, give her a gift that helps her do that with flair – a new picnic basket perhaps.

If your mom has always been the first to offer encouraging and affirming words, return the love. Write a poem or a song or a memoir of your favorite childhood memories – anything from the heart will speak to mom and say, “I love you.” Although your words are all she needs, add stationary, a new pen or even a book by her favorite author to your gift and she’ll know you think she’s #1.

Can mom always find more than a moment to spend with you? She speaks the language of quality time. Make an all day spa appointment or plan a long walk. This mom just wants to be with you and have your attention and devotion. Include a future appointment to really make this a Mother’s Day she’ll remember.

If you spent more time in a bear hug than alone growing up, your mom loves physical touch. Start her Mother’s Day with a hug, end it with one too. In between, pamper her with a soft robe, bubble bath, silk PJ’s, a cashmere sweater or a super soft throw… you’re getting the idea! Mom loves to be soothed by something she can wrap herself up or sink herself into. Be sure to make contact to let her know you care.

Every time you see your mom she has a little something for you, right? She saw it and thought of you… She knew you’d love it and had to have it… Your dear mom speaks the language of gift giving (and receiving). A gift that shows you really thought of her forget every sleepless night you caused as a teen. If she loves flowers, get her an exotic plant or a yearlong subscription to a plant of the month club. If her weakness if sweets, take her to a chocolate bar and treat her to a custom box of fancy delicacies.

Whatever your mom’s love language, if you speak it to her she’ll love you forever. And your gift will say that she’s always been the best in your book and she will continue to be.

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